2025 festivities
friday, october 10, 2025
we know the lack of information and advanced notice this year has been really frustrating. we hear you. in an effort to get more information out to you quicker, we’re sharing the schedule while a few things are still pending. we believe our community can hold grace and understanding should schedule/programming changes occur.
3-6p
registration
we’ll have some delightful volunteer kinksters to greet you at the door, check you in, affirm your volunteer positions, and give you any information you need ahead of the festivities.
3p-1a
grazing table
a grazing table full of snacks and refreshments will be available all weekend to keep the brain (and other) juices flowing.
5-6p
PoGM mixer
a space for people of the global majority (PoGM, aka BIPOC) to come together and get to know each other in a low-key space.
5-6p
white caucus
join producer BearJew in a space for white folks to come together and discuss ways to make unabashed an actively anti-racist space.
6-6:45p
welcome + logistics
we’ll greet everyone + share how the weekend’s going to work.
6:45-7p
opening ritual
this ritual is entirely optional; we will let everyone know before it begins. please take care of yourselves
7p-1a
play party feat. a designated after-care/cuddle space
make all your dreams come true on our first night of delectable debauchery.
saturday, october 11, 2025
all day
registration
we’ll have some delightful volunteer kinksters to greet you at the door, check you in, affirm your volunteer positions, and give you any information you need ahead of the festivities.
all day
grazing table
a grazing table full of snacks and refreshments will be available all weekend to keep the brain (and other) juices flowing.
9-10a
coffee, tea, and hangout
mix, mingle, and caffeinate ahead of our first full day!
10a-5p
unconference
voting from the night before will kick us off. keep an eye on the board to offer ideas, vote on your favorites, and see when your interests are meeting in community
10-1:30p
resource fair
come check out and add to our room-sized board of community resources. A few local community resources will be in-person to share more about their services and facilitate community building and connection.
2-3p
community panel
3:30-4:30
community keynote
5p-1a
play party feat. a designated after-care/cuddle space
new ideas mean fresh play. get some.
sunday, october 12, 2025
all day
registration
we’ll have some delightful volunteer kinksters to greet you at the door, get you checked in, affirm your volunteer positions, and give you any information you need ahead of the festivities.
all day
grazing table
a grazing table full of snacks and refreshments will be available all weekend to keep the brain (and other) juices flowing.
9-10a
coffee, tea, and hangout
mix, mingle, and caffeinate.
10a-3:30p
unconference
voting from the night before will kick us off. Keep an eye on the board to offer ideas, vote on your favorites, and see when your interests are meeting in community
10a-3:30p
play party
the main space is open for play starting at 10 am. playing in the daylight could provide all new possibilities…Volunteer Daddy might even have pancakes waiting for all the littles
4-5p
closing ceremonies
we’ll wrap some things up, raffle off some goodies, and then Lady Speech will lead us in a ritual to help us transition from a weekend of kinky community into whatever comes next.
the final ritual is entirely optional; we will let everyone know before it begins. please take care of yourselves.
5-6:30p
post-con wind down
stave off con drop, and wind down in community. clean up and tear down is on Monday morning, so this is a chance to make those last-minute connections.